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Implications of Low self Esteem.

Sometime ago,I mentioned how I was so not confident in myself and had great low self esteem and how I couldn't speak in public because I felt so ugly all the time and did not want to hear it anymore.This had me in my seat all the time.Well,I'd tell you this was not good for me at all as I lost so much which I'm still in the process of regaining. I'd like to share with you what happened sometime ago.Due to my struggle with self esteem, I never spoke in class.I'd sneak in and out of class and prayed everyday not to be noticed. Questions would be asked in class, I'd know the answers to the fullest even with analogies,but I'd prefer to keep quiet. I lost so many marks to this,especially in my first and second years in the higher institution,but it did not bother me since I thought I wasnt hurting anybody,little did I know I was hurting myself. One day in school,we were asked to collect some documents from a lecturer and so,we went in one after another.Well,it g...

Physical beauty and inner beauty.

I heard someone say sometime that not everyone is beautiful. I've also heard that people who say "beauty resides in the inside" are ugly physically and that's why they keep singing that song. Well,permit me to refute and argue these perspectives. What do I think??first off,I think everyone is beautiful,like I said in my last post,beauty is what we call it so if you think I'm not beautiful,its fine,its your perspective,all I know is,I've got the most perfect body size and shape and the most perfect face because no matter what any other person does, she'd never be me. That is why,I take out time to celebrate God's masterpiece,ME. I used to feel like people had the final say about my beauty,but what I know now is that,I have the first and last say,their opinions can come in between,but I own the introduction and conclusion,(girl,what's more important than that??) If you don't feel great about yourself,nobody will think great of you. Over the ye...